Samantha goes dupatta less In Anita Dongre Lehenga

Samantha is on a fashion high off late and she has been sporting some very stylish looks. I have a feeling she is going the sonam kapoor route, experimenting a a bit too much. All of her recent experiments turned out to be a hot or okayish  until this Anita Dongre Lehenga happened.

Samantha and her stylist Anisha Jain tried to turn heads with this royal blue anita dongre Lehenga paired with a backless gold choli. The looks was finished off with an amrapalli necklace and middle parted bun.
The front frame of the look looks prett y balanced if you ask me but the moment you have a look at the back of the blouse, you know this is all such a miss. A dupatta was so required in here . Ofcourse a dupatta wouldn’t cover up but it would lend some sort of balance to this look and make it more elegance.

You know why I was comparing sonam and samantha in this post? Well sonam was seen in a similar lehenga also by anita dongre in the first look of her movie Dolly ki Doli.

Who do you think wore this anita Dongre better? And what did you think of Samanthas backless look? please leave your thoughts below
Stay Stylish
Kamar jahan

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Embrace the comfort of Truth

Honesty is a value which is valued deeply even in todays times .  We have always been thought in our schools and homes to speak the truth.  Our moral lessons stress on the need to speak truth and restrain from taking the easy way of lying.

We tend to lie to save ourselves from trouble temporarily but in the process we forget that we are risking ourselves greater trouble when the lies get caught. Also lies weight heavily on the conscience and we always end up weaving more lies to cover up the original lie. So, when you think about it lying looks easy but in the long run truth is easier because truth comes with some really precious additions like peace , trust , chain and sukoon.

So who am i? A sage or some god send angel who never lies and is here to preach the lesson of honesty to all? No . Even I Lie back when I was in school I lied pretty easily as I felt small lies did not make any difference. Infact I believed lies for a good cause is actually good. But it isnt true, lying can do no good to anyone, we have no right to decide what is good for others. 

 

There are a million lies I would have told my parents, friends, family , teachers and even strangers in my entire life and some still weight on my conscience but after watching this advertisement from Kinley I have decided to try my best to be honest and keep the load on my heart and conscience a bare minimum.

The kinley advertisement reminds me of a similar incident which happened with me when I was in 8th standard. My gang of girls planned a trip to forum mall and involved me in it. I was excited about this trip but I was scared about my parents not giving me permission for this trip. I knew this girls only trip in a public bus would raise eye brows from my fairly conservative parents and I would be not allowed at any cost.  So I took the easy way out and told my parents I was going to my friends house to complete my science project with her. They accepted my reason and never questioned me even once.  They trusted their daughter and what was I doing? I did not enjoy the trip one bit, I was laughing with my friends but on the inside I was sad, there was a sort of restlessness, an uneasy feeling. The moment I reached home I revealed the entire trip details to my parents, my parents , were shocked, enrages and angry but it did not matter to me. All that mattered was that I was feeling good , the restlessness and the fear was gone . Sach mein, "Kitna chain hota hai na sachchai mein’ .

Telling the truth was the right thing to do. It will always be the right thing to do.

This post is written for Happy hours campaign on indiblogger

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Overcoming my fear of unknown

The Fear of Unknown
I always did the right things in my life . I was the girl all neighbors would refer to saying ‘ dekho usko, aur seekho usse kuch’ . Teachers adored me, my Marks always put a smile on my parents face . Bunking classes was an alien thing and studying hard was my hobby.
In college I took up science not because I wanted to but because my marks pointed to it.  Everyone with such high marks got into science, my parents had the same opinions and then well the journey began. A journey to nowhere because I had no idea what I wanted to do with my life but I had exceptional grades and I trusted them to sail me through my life.
Alas Life doesn’t work like that. Monotony kicked in, I did not enjoy this study hard, be the good girl  ritual much. It reflected on my grades , the slide wasn’t drastic but it was enough to ring an alarm and I knew I was living in my comfort zone .  I realized though I loved mental challenges science was not for me .
Good Grades. Good College. Good job.
Not For Me.  My passion rested else where , in careers which were not very conventional and had a certain risky edge to it.
When I conveyed this to my parents , they were surprised I dint want to become a certain doctor or an engineer but they were very supporting and said they had full confidence in my abilities and I could excel in whatever I choose . This was it. My fear of unknown was almost defeated all thanks to my parents support . I now wanted to venture out, explore new grounds and follow my dreams , my heart.
The movie 3 idiots released  at around the same point and it and I hold the movie close to my heart as it has helped me in my journey of overcoming my fear of unknown .
My journey from fear to victory is still on . I have ben playing with my passion for social Media marketing for quite sometime now. I want to make a career out of it .  I know it all sounds very dreamy and stuff but twitter is what I love, and that is what I want to do. Get paid to tweet.
Social Media Marketing as a  career is not very risky choice but what I want to do is unconventional social media evangelist stuff.  Brand Development, social Media marketing , managing campaigns it is all a part of my dream job profile and I am on my road to just that. It is going to tough because I want to open my own agency and be my own boss . I will have work hard and smart but when I know that I have parents who will support me no matter the fear of unknown ceases to exist.
Hope everything goes well . Wishing myself luck .
This post is written for indiblogger happy hours activity Rise above fear sponsored by Mountain Dew . You could find them on Facebook

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